Posted on April 8, 2008 by Raindreamer
I’ve been wondering whether to write about this or not. In a way it feels indiscreet - on the other hand I don’t intend to publish any names. First there was a guy, who looked for tall girls in Wales. Then some one looked for big women, whatever that meant. Read more »
Filed under: Personal history, Spinsters, marriage, me, men | Tagged: censor, commenting, level of desperation, luring men, proposals | 4 Comments »
Posted on April 2, 2008 by Raindreamer
Twice a year there is these crazy shopping fair in the local sophisticated department store. It is packed full of people, who try to buy quality stuff on sale. I hate the overcrowding, like most people, but there are some attractions I feel I cannot avoid. Read more »
Filed under: Spinsters, daily life, feelings, me | Tagged: mania, movie tickets, shopping, Ugly Betty | 2 Comments »
Posted on March 28, 2008 by Raindreamer
This question surprised me. I had never thought about taking care of myself as a woman (you guys can replace it with man if you like). It was in a book, where it was part of the section about identity. I seldom think about taking care of myself anyway. I posed this question to my girl friends and according their reactions, they were as baffled as I was. Read more »
Filed under: Personal history, Thoughts, feelings, friends, life, me, women | Tagged: feminity, gender identity, identity, masculinity, men, models, taking care of oneself | 3 Comments »
Posted on March 27, 2008 by Raindreamer
He is legally man, he has beard. His wife had hysterectomy (removing uterus) due to endrometriosis and cannot get pregnant. According to his own story, he just stopped taking testosterone to be able to get pregnant, without needing no help of artificial hormones nor fertility drugs to aid her (his) pregnancy. Got lost? I almost did. Read more »
Filed under: Children, Family, marriage, men | Tagged: endometriosis, hysterectonomy, infertility, insemination, pregnancy, pregnant man, sperm bank, testosterone, transgender | 9 Comments »
Posted on March 27, 2008 by Raindreamer
Just before the Easter I suddenly got plenty of traffic from strange source called rsd-nation. It was a male discussion forum and the writer linked to “Too picky or too shy” - and commented: “Does this mean that getting rejected is not always our fault? YES! 
“. Did you guys really think that women are some kind of robots that if you press the right buttons you always get “yes”? Read more »
Filed under: dating, me, men, women | Tagged: beauty, courtesy, flattery, getting to know, insecurity, moods, past, pick up lines, relationship players, tactics, talking, whitdrawal, wounds | 2 Comments »
Posted on March 26, 2008 by Raindreamer
He wants you to skip important meeting to be with him. She needs to talk to you in the middle of the night. He wants you to grow longer hair. She is whining every time (and that is not often) you want to spend night out with pals. Read more »
Filed under: Love, future, lonely, relationships | Tagged: excuses, faithfullness, forgetfulness, forgiveness, healthy boundaries, manipulation, manipulative, martyrdom, needy, proof, proving love, respect, true love, unhealthy relationships | No Comments »
Posted on March 21, 2008 by Raindreamer
I find that unlike many single women claim to do, I enjoy talking about pregnancy, baby slings, different kind of diapers, prams and how and where baby should sleep. As I told before I feel even closer connection to my friend now that she is pregnant. Read more »
Filed under: Children, Thoughts, friends, me, relationships | Tagged: baby, baby slings, diaper, expectation, gravity, pram, pregnancy, the Bundle | 2 Comments »
