Posted on January 7, 2009 by Raindreamer
He seemed nice, well educated and polite. We had nice chat over the net. Then he told he had nothing in the home to eat and silly me joked about needing to order the pizza. He wanted to meet me over lunch or dinner next day. I am no follower of the rule book - yet [...]
Filed under: Around the World, beliefs, culture, ethics, feelings, lifestyle, relationships | Tagged: Iran, prejudice, strangers | 4 Comments »
Posted on August 19, 2008 by Raindreamer
My problem with men has been a special kind of shyness or social fear. I am afraid of sexual chemistry and behind it are my bad experiences. I know it makes me difficult to interpret, because I am not otherwise excessively shy. It often happens that men I am not interested in find me easier [...]
Filed under: Personal history, Spinsters, beliefs, feelings, life, me, men, relationships | Tagged: abuse, broken heart, bullying, fear of abandonment, fear of ridicule, glib, handling fears, harassment, irrational fears, panic, trust | 7 Comments »
Posted on July 11, 2008 by Raindreamer
It has been ages I’ve written. “Nothing has really happen”, I think in my low moments and yet, when I talked to a friend she commented that I am having more bustle than years before. Maybe I have, but I still consider it nothing. I feel like being properly on the self, if you could call it [...]
Filed under: Personal history, Spinsters, Thoughts, appearance, beliefs, feelings, men, relationships | Tagged: attitudes, emotional scars, expectation, humiliation, summer | 3 Comments »
Posted on March 18, 2008 by Raindreamer
I filled in a questionnaire on partnership issues. There were some questions that made me think. Both me and my sister have emotional relationship issues – although we have reacted in different ways towards our childhood.
I wonder what impact does parents union have on our view of relationship. It is in the end what we’ve [...]
Filed under: Family, Love, beliefs, culture, feelings, life, lifestyle, marriage, relationships, role models | Tagged: Entertainment, impact, media, parents, television | 2 Comments »
Posted on February 28, 2008 by Raindreamer
It seems to me that true Gentlemen are not in fashion. There are some guys, who act gentlemanly in front of women they are after, but behind their backs are buggers. The true gentleman first of all must truly respect and cherish women (in general), a trait that was banned by a gang of ultra-feminist in the name [...]
Filed under: Funny, Romantic, appearance, beliefs, culture, dating, lifestyle, men, relationships, role models, women | Tagged: courtesy, dirty jokes, faking, feminism, fun, gentlemen, humor, humour, in disguise, man talk, manners, neutral language, polite language, positive discrimination, unfashionable | 4 Comments »
Posted on February 27, 2008 by Raindreamer
All spisnters ready? You’ve looked your selves nice guy to propose? It is once in the four years opportunity to propose a guy – and win (depending of tradition) skirt cloth or nice pair of gloves (If he doesn’t say yes that is).
I have to admit that I am dodger here. I could propose, but [...]
Filed under: Spinsters, beliefs, culture, marriage, men, women | Tagged: leap day, leap year, proposals | Leave a Comment »
Posted on February 14, 2008 by Raindreamer
“Destined to die alone
in a room heavy whit
the tang of cat wee.”
Filed under: Funny, Spinsters, beliefs, friends, future, holidays, lonely, role models, single life, women | Tagged: aging, alone, anti-valentines, Bridget Jones, Bridget Jones diaries, cards, cats, e-cards, fears, fun, humor, humour, living alone, loneliness, nuns, valentine's day, valentines, Valentines cards | 2 Comments »