Posted on February 15, 2008 by Raindreamer
There is just this one wish I have for man who ever is going to propose me. I don’t mind how he does it (but might have notice that my taste is not for romantic cliches…) but please would you not propose me at Valentines. It is so old and corny. (more…)
Filed under: culture, dreams, feelings, future, holidays, Love, marriage, me, men, relationships, Romantic, Scandinavia | Tagged: cliché, corny, February Second, leap day, Midsommer, new years eve, proposals, valentine's day | 6 Comments »
Posted on January 15, 2008 by Raindreamer
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times,
always with the same person.
- Germaine Greer or Mignon McLaughlin -
Does romance just happend? Are you looking at your partner whit wonder? Can you create magic? I just wonder.
Filed under: Love, marriage, men, Thoughts, women | Tagged: falling in love, Germaine Greer, love quotes, marriage quotes, Mignon McLaughlin, quote | 2 Comments »
Posted on November 22, 2007 by Raindreamer
In the past most women stayed home and just took care of the house-keeping and babies, right? It would be most natural to mommies to stay home and take care kids now too? It depends how long past do you want to go and what kind of society do you want to dig in to. And especially it depends on the class. (more…)
Filed under: beliefs, Children, culture, daily life, Family, lifestyle, marriage, relationships, role models, women, Work | Tagged: history, homemaker, housewife, mothers, S.A.H.M., Suzy the homemaker, wahm, working from home | 6 Comments »
Posted on November 6, 2007 by Raindreamer
I wonder if I am going through some short of mental change. Dreams are supposed to reflect the movements of the subconscious and in my dreams I am having relationship (serious dating or marriage). Nothing particular in those dreams. In them it seem so natural to have relationship. Its like I’ve always been in one. (more…)
Filed under: Children, dreams, Family, life, marriage, me, relationships, Spinsters | Leave a Comment »
Posted on October 25, 2007 by Raindreamer
Yet another unique way to propose a lady. I got this comment to my old posting about this chain-mail proposal – you can read the original mail or go to check the web-page. I only just found it as Akismet tought it was spam, but what a romantic spam.
You can help to spread it further as hoped and check yourself, when it finally reaches its target. But of course: please don’t spam others!
Filed under: Love, marriage, men, relationships, Romantic, women | Tagged: chainmail, proposal, proposals, spam | Leave a Comment »
Posted on October 24, 2007 by Raindreamer
What scares me most about the marriage in general, is that “we” (me and my potential hubby) fall in the roles and mechanically start living “married life”. In my dreams the married life is companionship, occasionally fun and shared moments. In reality I am afraid it would be me playing my mama and he playing his dad. So how could one free of this kind of unwanted roles and be ourselves? (more…)
Filed under: Family, feelings, marriage, me, men, Personal history, relationships, role models, Thoughts, women | Tagged: fear of commitment, fears, irresponsibility, marital roles, nagging, seriousness, severity | Leave a Comment »
Posted on October 23, 2007 by Raindreamer
I will now share whit you this old posting by Avanoo that pops up in my-comments once in a while. Since 9 months it was originally posted it has (slightly irritatingly) collected comments infrequently up-to now. So I am now sharing this thought provoking posting whit you too: The Science Is Clear: Marriage Should Be Eradicated
I said 9 months ago: Science is never clear… (more…)
Filed under: beliefs, blogspotting, culture, ethics, lifestyle, marriage, relationships, Thoughts | Tagged: abolition of marriage, infidelity | 2 Comments »