I’ve been wondering whether to write about this or not. In a way it feels indiscreet - on the other hand I don’t intend to publish any names. First there was a guy, who looked for tall girls in Wales. Then some one looked for big women, whatever that meant.
Filed under: Personal history, Spinsters, marriage, me, men | Tagged: censor, commenting, level of desperation, luring men, proposals | 4 Comments »
This question surprised me. I had never thought about taking care of myself as a woman (you guys can replace it with man if you like). It was in a book, where it was part of the section about identity. I seldom think about taking care of myself anyway. I posed this question to [...]
Filed under: Personal history, Thoughts, feelings, friends, life, me, women | Tagged: feminity, gender identity, identity, masculinity, men, models, taking care of oneself | 3 Comments »
It all started, when I red from the Dr. Phil’s page that men are biologically destined to be selfish. Men often complain about women being greedy, but the real life studies shows that men use more money to their own convenience (like nice gadgets), while women usually invest towards home and family. Women also do [...]
Filed under: Family, Personal history, feelings, marriage, me, men, money, relationships, role models, women | Tagged: Dr. Phil, selfishness | No Comments »
As you might have heard I wrote a profile in a Internet dating page, where you don’t see a picture right away - only after the other one gives you permission. Whit-out seeing a picture and and me writing much more than three paragraphs of my profile, one man told me (repeatedly) that he had fallen in love with my [...]
Filed under: Love, Personal history, Romantic, Singles, dating, feelings, men, relationships | Tagged: abusive partners, casanovas, dating profile, falling in love, internet dating, profile, relationship players | No Comments »
I confess I did it. I wrote nice little profile in quite specific dating service my friend had used before (and not found her guy there). I just wanted to include some men in my life and possibly date. I was as honest as possible. Let me see I wrote something like hating washing dishes [...]
Filed under: Family, Personal history, Singles, Thoughts, dating, friends, me, men, relationships, single life | Tagged: anonymity, choosing, dating profile, decission making, difficult choice, exclusive, fear, Funny, getting over, hard questions, internet dating, meeting, name, on-line dating, panic, profile, single woman, sorrow, woman | 2 Comments »
Most women have experienced it in one point of their life or another. Some one has either touched or commented in a sexual way that was not wanted. The worst cases are certainly rapes, but even lighter touch can wound and scar, which many men are not able to realize because their own experiences are so [...]
Filed under: Around the World, Personal history, me, men, relationships, women | Tagged: awarness, bitterness, bullies, educating boys, education, forced attention, foreign women, forgiveness, forgiving, frotteurism, groping, hostile environment, pinching, proposition, rubbing, school bullying, unwanted touch | 4 Comments »
One of my over-coat buttons got loose couple of weeks ago. It seems to reflect everything that is going wrong at my life at the moment. I seem to not be able to handle such a minor things as sewing my button, which I by the way can do perfectly well.
Filed under: Personal history, Thoughts, daily life, feelings, friends, life, me, relationships, single life | Tagged: concentration, lack of determination, practicalities | 2 Comments »
