Posted on March 28, 2008 by Raindreamer
This question surprised me. I had never thought about taking care of myself as a woman (you guys can replace it with man if you like). It was in a book, where it was part of the section about identity. I seldom think about taking care of myself anyway. I posed this question to [...]
Filed under: Personal history, Thoughts, feelings, friends, life, me, women | Tagged: feminity, gender identity, identity, masculinity, men, models, taking care of oneself | 3 Comments »
Posted on March 21, 2008 by Raindreamer
I find that unlike many single women claim to do, I enjoy talking about pregnancy, baby slings, different kind of diapers, prams and how and where baby should sleep. As I told before I feel even closer connection to my friend now that she is pregnant.
Filed under: Children, Thoughts, friends, me, relationships | Tagged: baby, baby slings, diaper, expectation, gravity, pram, pregnancy, the Bundle | 2 Comments »
Posted on March 20, 2008 by Raindreamer
Just an year ago I wrote about not being in a hurry to become mother. Last weekend I found myself panicking about potential menopause. I know it was silly and it probably has not started yet, but my curses were light and I was quite warm (although I wore plenty of clothing) and some how [...]
Filed under: Children, Family, Love, Romantic, Spinsters, Thoughts, feelings, life, me, men, single life | Tagged: early menopause, fear, fertility, infertility, panic | No Comments »
Posted on March 11, 2008 by Raindreamer
He is a charmer and she is a clinging shadow. You wonder why they are together, especially when you occasional hear her whining for him. He is charming sunny character, always in the center of the scene and for her nothing is ever right. You wonder why does he stand for her. He is fun [...]
Filed under: Children, Love, Romantic, Thoughts, men, relationships, women | Tagged: abuse, alcholism, boundaries, Cheating, co-dependence, emotionally unstable, healthy boundaries, manipulation, narcissism, no, suicide, unlimited | No Comments »
Posted on March 4, 2008 by Raindreamer
I confess I did it. I wrote nice little profile in quite specific dating service my friend had used before (and not found her guy there). I just wanted to include some men in my life and possibly date. I was as honest as possible. Let me see I wrote something like hating washing dishes [...]
Filed under: Family, Personal history, Singles, Thoughts, dating, friends, me, men, relationships, single life | Tagged: anonymity, choosing, dating profile, decission making, difficult choice, exclusive, fear, Funny, getting over, hard questions, internet dating, meeting, name, on-line dating, panic, profile, single woman, sorrow, woman | 2 Comments »
Posted on February 20, 2008 by Raindreamer
One of my over-coat buttons got loose couple of weeks ago. It seems to reflect everything that is going wrong at my life at the moment. I seem to not be able to handle such a minor things as sewing my button, which I by the way can do perfectly well.
Filed under: Personal history, Thoughts, daily life, feelings, friends, life, me, relationships, single life | Tagged: concentration, lack of determination, practicalities | 2 Comments »
Posted on February 14, 2008 by Raindreamer
Somebody searched for Valentines day and Spinster. Due to it and because I am in the very different mood than I was year ago (solemly against this kind of forced celebrating that creates angst among single people) I intend to celebrate my Valentines alone whit rich chocolate and a good book - something sweetly and emotionally romantic.
Filed under: Romantic, Singles, Spinsters, Thoughts, future, holidays, life, lifestyle, lonely, me, single life, women | Tagged: happiness, happy, Valentine, valentine's day | 2 Comments »
