Why Are We Making It So Difficult?

Fifty year ago marrying was simple business – people met and got married. Then they lived simply together until the end of their lives. If they ended up divorcing behind of it was something very difficult, like family violence, cheating or heavy drinking. Continue reading


I Should Have Known Better

I was visiting Italy in the spring. Yes, yes I know, I’ve been thinking of telling you this story since then, but somehow I seem to not have gotten into it. Don’t ask me what I’ve done, because I am not able to explain it – I am not even sure if I know it myself. Continue reading

Long Time Not Seen

Yes, I have been away for long time. I got tired of the blog and felt I had nothing to say to you. The pause have  helped me to collect my vits and I hope I have more to tell you in near future. This Year has so far offered its ups and downs – and even adventures.

End of the Year 2008

Most of the second half of 2008 my life evolve around work (a lot of new and stressful things), my mother (who I’ve been worried about) and my god daughter, who will soon be half year old. I have to admit I am besotted. She is a little darling. Continue reading

Why do you feel that you need a mate?

Somebody asked me this question in this blog for a while ago.

I don’t think it is a question of need. I can do without a mate. I might feel more satisfied with a family, but I am rather happy with my life as it is. In fact relationships (with men) usually make me feel frustrated and uncomfortable. Continue reading

If I were …, I would be

If I were a beginning, I would be… the first giggle
If I were a month, I would be… May
If I were a time of day, I would be… evening

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I Hate Being Sick

I don’t love my work, but being sick and not able to do anything else than read and watch TV. I’ve had had fever for 6 days. I am so bored and sleepy. I feel being stuck. I had two days off last week and was sick both days. Yuck! Now I sound like I’d be 10 or maybe younger.

I suppose I used to be seldomly sick when I was young and I’ve not learned to enjoy the experience. I don’t even have that much fever – only just so much that I barely have it. That is the worst thing, I think. I hope my feever is off today – I seemed like that in the morning.