Why do you feel that you need a mate?

Somebody asked me this question in this blog for a while ago.

I don’t think it is a question of need. I can do without a mate. I might feel more satisfied with a family, but I am rather happy with my life as it is. In fact relationships (with men) usually make me feel frustrated and uncomfortable. Continue reading


I was in a Regency Mood

I am Elinor Dashwood!

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Future Ex-Wife

Yesterday I was standing in the line checkout line behind two young men of about 20 years of age. Other one started to talk about his “future ex-wife” and noted that he did not intend to be married forever. He did not seem like a hard person as in fact he was quite polite towards me. Continue reading

If I were …, I would be

If I were a beginning, I would be… the first giggle
If I were a month, I would be… May
If I were a time of day, I would be… evening

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Webspotting: Great Lists

The Men’s health listed 10 ways to win woman – and that is a good list. The key message was: be nice and relax. The best in it was that it was written to average male and boyfriend and not for a serial dater. Only the name of the list “10 Ways to Make Her Beg for More”, was kind of jerk itself. Oh, and why did you need naked woman with it? Well I was not part of the target audience, so maybe it is one of those “male things” again.

The Bestlife showed that most important Male Physical Atribute in the eyes of the women is sence of style.

I Hate Being Sick

I don’t love my work, but being sick and not able to do anything else than read and watch TV. I’ve had had fever for 6 days. I am so bored and sleepy. I feel being stuck. I had two days off last week and was sick both days. Yuck! Now I sound like I’d be 10 or maybe younger.

I suppose I used to be seldomly sick when I was young and I’ve not learned to enjoy the experience. I don’t even have that much fever – only just so much that I barely have it. That is the worst thing, I think. I hope my feever is off today – I seemed like that in the morning.

The Question of Older Men

When I was in my twenties I would have not even considered dating some one over five years older than me. But when you get older, the prospects get less good and you suddenly start to see around older, rather exiting men. Occasionally you look around and most men of my age are either not interested or not interesting and then you start looking towards older men. Continue reading